We’d like to welcome you to the Virtual Kitchen Table. We are Hayley from Taking a Kinder Path, Erin from Ever Learning and Ashley from Ashley as Mama and Storytime Shelves. We’re gathering to have conversations about family life and home education, most specifically unschooling, which is sometimes known as self-directed education or, as we sometimes refer to it, whole life learning, consent-based education or natural learning. We’ll be sharing experiences and ideas, learning as we go through relaxed conversation. We hope you’ll pull a chair up to the table and join us.
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What is Unschooling, Part 1: A Framework of Ideas
Do you ever wonder what unschooling is really about? Or maybe you have a sense of it yourself but wonder how to describe it if asked? This ended up being a very full and nuanced conversation based on the first part of Hayley’s blog post series by the same name.
Young People Often Do Know What They Don’t Know
How when kids have the time and space to self-direct their learning, they develop good skills and trust their intuition
Parents Can’t Teach Their Children Everything and That’s Okay
This isn’t a criticism of the abilities of home educating parents, but instead reassurance for all parents that there is no need to take all of the things on. Children being taught everything ahead of time isn’t how deep and meaningful learning usually happens.
The Strength of Stories - Our Own and Our Children’s
We happily welcomed Pam Laricchia, Anna Brown and Erika Ellis from www.livingjoyfully.ca to discuss the topic of Stories. Pam, Anna and Erika have spoken in depth about the nuances and choices within the stories we tell both ourselves and others.
Does Teaching Have a Place in Self-Directed Education or Unschooling?
We read a Substack article by Esther Jones, Unschooling and the Magic of Teaching and were inspired to peel back the role that teaching might play within self-directed learning and a number of aspects that are related. It turned out to be a very interesting topic and we’d love you to have a listen!
Nervous System Health and Self-Compassion, Our Own and Our Children’s
It was really an honour to speak with Linsey Briggs of @unschoolingstanley about a topic she shares so generously about. Her insights were both beautiful and practical. It’s always amazing to see the different angles and experiences each person has and so this was another full conversation.
My Journey to Taking a Kinder Path - In Honour of Hayley
Oof. This is hard.
This episode is one in which we give the sad news that our wonderful Hayley has passed on.
Resentment - Our Feelings Toward Other Homeschool Parents, our Spouses and Children, and How We Can Move Through Them
We discuss the topic of ‘Resentment’ which initially sounded a bit unpleasant, but there was real peace and clarity in being honest about our very human experiences of walking the line between what we need or wish for ourselves and what others are doing or potentially asking of us.
Taking a Kinder Path to the Holiday Season - Planning Together with our Kids
Based on a core section of Hayley’s blog post, Taking a Kinder Path to the Festivities: For You, Your Children and the Planet, we discuss kind and collaborative approaches we can take to the holiday season
The Way Children Learn: Living a Life that Supports All Kinds of Learning
Anne fromEclectic Kids, Bird Bound and @obytheby and April Scully from Modern Homeschoolers join for a conversation about the many faces of whole life learning. The conversation is as vibrant, messy, wonderful and meaningful as whole life learning itself is. We talk not only about the “academic” side of learning but also about including children in real life experiences — even hard or uncomfortable ones sometimes — and the self-awareness, care for others and resilience they develop bit by bit.
The Imagination we Lack When it Comes to Education: The Kindergarten Years
Kindergarten in the past in comparison to now (each sharing memories of our own start of school)
Sharing stories of our child’s start to the school years
High School Diplomas, College Degrees and Future Careers: Is There More Than One Way?
We say “yes” there is!
Missy Willis from Let ‘em Go Barefoot and I connected this summer to have a conversation based on one of Missy’s Substack essays, Make the High School Diploma Mean Something Again.
How to Begin Homeschooling: Getting Into the Swing of Things Whether New to it or Continuing
We talk about beginning the “school year,” either as a new homeschool family or a continuing family from the perspective of both connection and practical ideas. It can be an exciting time of year, but it can also be daunting! Even a new age or stage our child has reached can make this time of year full of feelings and concerns.
Nature Study, Time Outdoors and Taking the Pressure off of Ourselves and our Children
We dive into a deep exploration of different perspectives about nature study and outdoor time and where those things are both similar and different.
Financially Accessible Homeschooling - How Do We Offer our Children an Abundant Life?
We tap into this topic with Anne from @obytheby and Eclectic Kids and come to the conclusion that living richly and abundantly is indeed possible without expensive classes, outings and materials.
Creative Kids, Creative Parents
We came back to chat about creativity and creative practice again with Cyrielle from Unschooling and Thriving, and Kendel from spark.to.flame.homelearning joined in and added her perspective.
What to Do When We Feel Like a Rubbish Parent: 13 Steps to Dealing with Parenting Doubt
Sometimes we all feel we’ve missed the mark with our kids and it’s not a great feeling. What might be helpful during those times?
Feel Like a Rubbish Parent? 9 Things to Remember When You Doubt Your Parenting
Do you feel like a rubbish parent? Scared of letting your children down? Convinced you’re not good enough …?”
Home - The Places, the People and Coming Home to Ourselves
We were joined by Bex Tobin Fine, author of the picture book You Are Home and thoroughly enjoyed a conversation with her about the many aspects of home.
More Unschooling Math/s - What Does Learning Mathematics Naturally Look Like
Episode 38: What a delight to have Sue Elvis from Stories of an Unschooling Family and April from Modern Homeschoolers join again to talk about mathematics and the various and interesting ways that skills and knowledge are developed.

