We’d like to welcome you to the Virtual Kitchen Table. We are Hayley from Taking a Kinder Path, Erin from Ever Learning and Ashley from Ashley as Mama and Storytime Shelves. We’re gathering to have conversations about family life and home education, most specifically unschooling, which is sometimes known as self-directed education or, as we sometimes refer to it, whole life learning, consent-based education or natural learning. We’ll be sharing experiences and ideas, learning as we go through relaxed conversation. We hope you’ll pull a chair up to the table and join us.
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What is Unschooling and How Does it Work?
We are talking about unschooling in this episode, something that is often misunderstood in both wording and practice. Our conversation twists and turns into all kinds of interesting places, but at the core of things, we seem to keep coming back to the ideas of respect, trust and curiosity.
Being Intentional about the Holidays - Ideas for Thoughtful Families
We’re talking about holidays and gatherings in this episode, digging into what helps families make the most of their time together! As we head into a season that can be quite full for many, we share ideas about intention, choice, communication and building in rest and open time.
Lists or Not - How Do We and Those We Love Keep Organized?
What is the role of lists in our lives? How do we each make lists, or not? Is list-making essential to organization or are there other ways to plan and keep intentional about things?
Homeschool Community - Finding, Sustaining and How it Evolves
Homeschool communities and groups – Do we need to join one? Should we start one? How do we consider changes to both communities and our family over time?
Kids and Screens, Pondering Digital Tech from a Few Angles - Part Two
Screen time is a big topic. The world has become increasingly digital and parents are trying to make caring and thoughtful decisions amidst many sources of advice, often contrary to one another.
Kids and Screens, Pondering Digital Tech From a Few Angles - Part One
Screen time is a big topic. The world has become increasingly digital and parents are trying to make caring and thoughtful decisions amidst many sources of advice, often contrary to one another.
Socialization and Homeschooling, Exploring it from Different Angles - Part Two
Socialization and homeschooling is unarguably a common topic. It might be considered the proverbial thorn in a homeschool parent’s side. But what do we mean by socialization anyway?
Socialization and Homeschooling, Exploring it from Different Angles - Part One
Socialization and homeschooling is unarguably a common topic. It might be considered the proverbial thorn in a homeschool parent’s side. But what do we mean by socialization anyway?
Perspectives on Self-care - For Our Children, For Ourselves
What is self-care anyway? In this episode we discuss the different things it means to different people, how we consider it during busy parenting seasons and, woven into the conversation, what does our children’s self-care look like?
How Much Novelty Do Our Kids Need?
How much novelty do children need? How much do we need and how do we work it out within a family rhythm? Although we realize each person is individual, it’s something we’ve noticed involves observing and listening, planning and yet holding those plans loosely.
Home Ed on the Move - Exploring a Wandering Lifestyle with Alice Griffin
Home educating while travelling can play out in a variety of ways and is different for each family. It often brings to mind the idea of high excitement and far-flung locations. While that sometimes might be true, there are other styles of adventure as well.
Deschooling Through the Lens of The Unschool Challenge - Part Two
When people first hear the word “deschooling,” they might assume it is all about the children, but they soon realize it can have a whole lot to do with parents as well!
Deschooling Through the Lens of The Unschool Challenge - Part One
When people first hear the word “deschooling,” they might assume it is all about the children, but they soon realize it can have a whole lot to do with parents as well!
Do We Deserve Joy? Unpacking Perspectives of Joy in Home Education
Do we deserve joy? That might sound like a strange question because smiling and happiness are very valued, but it seems we’re less comfortable with deep and ongoing joy.
Beginning Unschooling During a Pandemic - Part 2
This was originally a conversation recorded for and posted to the Stories of Unschooling Families online community in Spring of 2022 and we decided to include it as an episode.
Beginning Unschooling During a Pandemic - Part 1
This was originally a conversation recorded for and posted to the Stories of Unschooling Families online community in Spring of 2022 and we decided to include it as an episode.
The State of Flow in Learning
It is a fascinating thing to observe our children in a state of flow with their learning. Fully focused and engaged in an interest or task, a sense of time and space is lost as they dive into the deep development of an idea or skill.
Kindness and Unconditional Love - What do they have to do with Unschooling? - Part 2
Kindness and unconditional love are things that most parents hope to have and give to their children. In fact they are valued by almost all people. What do they have to do with unschooling? Join us as we explore what kindness and unconditional love have meant for each of us and the role they might play in our unschooling families.
Kindness and Unconditional Love - What do they have to do with Unschooling? - Part 1
Kindness and unconditional love are things that most parents hope to have and give to their children. In fact they are valued by almost all people. What do they have to do with unschooling? Join us as we explore what kindness and unconditional love have meant for each of us and the role they might play in our unschooling families.
Home Education During Transition and Difficult Times
When things are rosy and our days seem to flow, it’s easy to feel confident and comfortable in the choice to be a home educating family. During harder times, it can feel shaky.

